A Nazarene Israelite should put into practice what he gleans from his rabbi or teacher. “Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me--put it into practice. And the Elohim of peace will be with you. (Philippians 4:9)”
The key is to maintain consistent observance.
Children thrive on consistency, and appreciate uniformity and stability in their lives. They will intuitively discern which standards and values we regard as essential and immutable, and which can be challenged and negated.
The basis of successful parenting is establishing matot--firm, unbending principles through which to guide our children. Matot means “tribes” but it also means “a firm rod.” A rod is straight and can be used as a disciplining tool.
“No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it. Therefore, strengthen your feeble arms and weak knees. ‘Make level paths for your feet,’ so that the lame may not be disabled, but rather healed. (Hebrews 12:11-13)”
King Solomon teaches in Proverbs, "chosech shivto, soneh benoh" which literally means, "he who withholds the rod, hates his child" (hence the popular adage, "spare the rod and spoil the child"). The message of this wisdom for our times is that a loving, caring parent must imbue his child with conceptual rods--firm and unyielding principles to guide him through the bewildering paths of life.
“…in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. (Proverbs 3:6)”
We should not be content with just listening to straight things, but doing straight things. The gay community have a word for heterosexuals. You know what that word is? STRAIGHT!
Shabbat